This morning I had just returned from my 15 mile bike ride and was washing down my bike when my W drove by (she only lives 5 houses down) and she stopped. I went over and gave her a hug. We chatted for about 15 min. It was a good conversation she was telling me about her trip to Vegas and then she mentioned that she was going over to her friends house for a big barbaque they were doing on sunday. It kind of hit me that Sunday was Fathers day and I guess I had hoped she would want to spend time with us:-( On Mothers day I went down to her house and made a big dinner for her and her boys. I know I should not do things and expect something be done in return but it still stings.
It was a bit the same on her boys birthdays we went all out and I spent about $500 and she bought him a new computer on the 16 year old and I spent $200 and she spent prob $500 on the 10 year old but then when it was my daughters birthday 2 weeks ago. She spent maybe $25 on hair ribbions.
I should not be making these comparisons and I am sure I am trying to over compensate and when I look at it trying to buy love.
Oh well live and learn...


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13