Your attitude is the problem, IMHO. You have an air of superiority when it comes to your H. And, maybe you are superior to him in some ways but your condescending attitude is so apparent that I'm sure he feels its sting on a regular basis.
Would it make any difference if you knew that I spent a good part the night last night crying from the stress and burden of all that is on my plate right now, that my H's goof just put me over the edge? That today I was sick from being utterly exhausted? Can someone actually be condescending and have an air of superiority and be crying at the same time?
I hate text. What you're describing is not how I feel at all.
