Sorry you don't like my answer or my tone. You are correct. I don't think I would like you should we ever meet. I think you are very self-absorbed. I think you come here more for justification for your contempt of your H than for any real help with your M. You had some of the best people on this board (not me, of course) give you advice and tools to help your sitch.

And, yet, he's always the problem.

Your attitude is the problem, IMHO. You have an air of superiority when it comes to your H. And, maybe you are superior to him in some ways but your condescending attitude is so apparent that I'm sure he feels its sting on a regular basis.

Like I said, I feel sorry for the guy. He really should be married to someone who loves him and appreciates him more.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing