I was already cleaning it, for several hours. I didn't ask him to do it. I asked him if he had any tar remover, something he might have used for cleaning the cars or the siding. He didn't bring it to me, he immediately went out to the deck and started spraying it on the deckboards.
If you're suggesting I have to do absolutely everything myself, including keep track of every item of inventory in the house, or go purchase a new one after he used it because I can't ask him where it is without fear of what he might do with it, then I'm not sure why you think I would be married?
I get your tone. It has been consistent in your posts and not very helpful with improving my sitch, frankly. I don't mean to be rude, but you've thrown a number of doozies at me. I'm wondering if it's possible for you to be more productive? I appreciate feedback, but you seem to have developed some personal dislike for me for some reason and it's very evident in the tone of your responses.
