Hey Lio,
My husband has no idea whose house I was at. I know that he isn't particularly fond of this particular friend, but he doesn't know what I was anyway.

I went to the library to get the book today, and of course the library was closed.

My marriage counselor called because I wanted to see what I should do. He basically said that, since he clearly doesn't want to talk to me and is acting like this, I should hand-write a note and leave it for him and to ask him to list things that can make this easier for both of us. Like, how can we be civil if we're going to have to co-exist in the same apartment. I feel like this is pursuing though?!?

I then told the marriage counselor this and I mentioned MWD and he mentioned the see-saw thing. He said that maybe what I was doing was a good idea then. Thanks, Mr. Marriage counselor?

And no one is around to do anything tonight and I feel absolutely trapped.