After we got married we moved to my W's home state and I left behind my family and friends. I have of course made new friends, but it is not the same as family and life long friends. Since this began I've been making excuses to my mother when she calls and ask to speak to the W, she still at work, went to the gym, is shopping etc..etc..etc.
Well, two weeks ago she asked me if everything was OK between me and W, I lied and said sure, why do you think that? and her reply was "I just had a feeling". I again lied and said everything was fine and, we said our goodbyes and ended the call. I'm now back to my lies when mom calls and ask about W (Mom calls about once a week).
So the question is, how long do I keep my family in the dark? I would not say anything about the A, but I'm wondering if I should let them know that we are going though some problems.
Thoughts?
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
