why not go out for ice cream when your w and d playfully wanted to?
What was your goal in saying no? Surely it wasn't a boundary setting right? (is your d obese?)
DO you see how you might have looked just a little petty or like the downer UNfun parent?
Just asking b/c I am curious about your goal in that small, but potentially telling gesture.
Hers, and yours...
25yearsmlc, thanks for the reply.
Re-reading my post, I see I left out the part that us leaving (me and D) was to go to the park, we had a great time
Was not looking really set any goals. Me and the W have always set limits on the junk food we will allow are D to have. We have try to show her that eating no so good food is ok sometimes but you should not eat it everyday. I of course cannot ask W if she saw my point at this time, but I would hope she did not take me saying no as a gesture.
25yearsmlc, would like you thoughts on me asking the W not to stay in the family home while she is in a R with OM. Do you think it was the right approach or should I have let her stay?
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
