Busto, my main point even if it seems different, is that I see little value in hammering the adulterer'
IF reconciling is the goal b/c it makes letting go/forgiving way harder and perhaps
more importantly it takes the focus off things we can change, like ourselves.
But here's my question Lost,
why not go out for ice cream when your w and d playfully wanted to?
What was your goal in saying no? Surely it wasn't a boundary setting right? (is your d obese?)
DO you see how you might have looked just a little petty or like the downer UNfun parent?
Just asking b/c I am curious about your goal in that small, but potentially telling gesture.
Hers, and yours...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
