I had a funny interaction with STBXH yesterday evening. I had some friends over to try an experimental indigo stitching prep class. It didn't work they way I wanted, they stayed late, my DIL and granddaughters showed up, then boths sons ans another friend. Mayhem! Which I love, but dinner got defrosted, but not cooked. So STBXH said lets go for Thai food.
On the way he asked did I have any money. I said yes, but if I gave him my cash I wouldn't have any. I asked didn't he have his own account now? (WHich his excuse for setting it up was so he didn't always have to come to me for money.) He said he couldn't get to an ATM. I told him I would take money out at the bank by the resturant. BUT that I thought he needed to figure out where the ATMs were!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!