Good job, you need to tell her that you have boundries. You need to keep standing up to her and telling her how it is. She needs to get that dose of reality, and know how it is going to be if she goes thru with this. Job well done, I know it hurts, but your doing the right thing.
Thanks, but I don't think I did it to show her how it is, does part of me hope that this will effect her thinking? Maybe, but I did it for me. I also need time to deal with my feelings and having her here with what is going on would not help. I'll kept thinking of her and what I could do to change her mind about us and not dealing with my issues.
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
