We lost the spark. How do I live with this guilt?

[reachingHigher]

My H was sending me "not wanting to be there at home with me" messages in January '12. I made a plan to get out of the house. I signed up with a gardening class from the county on one evening, fitness boot camp on two evenings and swimming at a local comm. college on a fourth evening.

It felt terrible like I was getting booted out of the house, but it gave us both some breathing room, got me some exercise, and I met some new people.

No one can tell you about where to spend your time or nights. But maybe just think about your goals and how you would best get there. (is this action bringing me closer to my goal or driving me farther away? Is there a better action I can take?)