I think that letter is great, however it makes this whole thing more confusing. I am sure it makes you think “why”.
My guess is that she doesn’t even know “why”. We can all speculate and it amounts to a hill of beans. There may or may not come a time when your W wants to work on your R. In the meantime, utilize your time wisely.
Ultimately us LBS’s have to get out of the way of our WAS’s to allow them to live the reality of their decisions. We are on separate paths with our spouses during this time.
Therein lies the beauty of this mess my friend. We have control of the choices we make on our own paths. It is an opportunity to become better people. To learn from our past mistakes and grow as individuals. Embrace it as a gift.
Where do you see yourself in a year from now? Five years from now? Ten years from now? My answer, a happy and healthy place that is not dependent on anyone else.
Positivity breeds positivity and it is attractive. bustorama gave you some great advice on GAL to get your mojo back. It did wonders for me.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
