RT,

Right after my H moved out and in with ow, he was ecstatic and full of life. Something I hadn't seen from him in a couple years.

It didn't last long when reality hit and he found out that the problems he thought he could run from followed him and multiplied. His untreated depression returned.

Just be patient and at some point you will see that all isn't what it seems. There are consequences when you break up a family. It will become clearer to her at some point. Right now she's on a high from getting her freedom. The other side of that for her will be when she falls. Let her go and put your focus on yourself and your kids.

Good job on the Meet Up GAL.