It's been almost 3 years since my MLC H left, he stills blames me for everything.
At first I carried the weight of guilt because I believed him...through my own journey I realized I wasn't all that bad of a wife. Fixed what I didn't like about me and continued on.
When they say it takes the MLCer a long time to get to the other side, if ever, believe it. No expectations = no disappointment. Something I still have to remind myself of every so often.
Brookie is right, just keep going. You're doing fine!
