"I'm fine, thanks."

His anger is his problem to deal with.

One other thing, your H can't really get rid of your stuff without your consent.

You should consult a L.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss