Hey reachinghigher. I'm sorry that you're going through this as well.
I don't know how to proceed with the marriage counselor. He's on vacation anyways so I have two weeks to see how DB works and then I'll figure it out.
I actually went straight from work to a male friends house after work. I met two of his friends and it was a lovely evening. He lives ten minutes away from my work whereas I live 45 minutes away from my work, so I slept here (completely platonically).
My husband texted me last night to say that he was not going to be home because he sold the Wii to one of his friends (he's already getting rid of our stuff). I didn't answer him. I didn't feel the need.
This morning, he sent me a text asking that I please text him to let him know I'm ok. He had no idea where I'd be today and since he doesn't want to be my husband, I'm not obligated to tell him.
What should I reply, though? Just a simple "I'm ok?" Do I ask him if he is ok? Do I tell him that I stayed at a friend's place? I feel like he is going to be angry/resentful that I didn't tell him to begin with, but honestly, why would I? How should I proceed??!
