Not Being A Victim

[BklynMom]

SIAS thks for checking in. Go Thunder! Have I ever mentioned that my parents were living in OKC 9 months prior to my birth??

I feel a change in the wind since these meetings with my H. In our post meeting conversations it has just been glaringly obviously my growth and his lack of growth. At one point he blamed me again 100% for the downfall of our relationship and I wasnt angry and I validated but it made me think he was a little insane if in a year he hasnt recognized the part he played as well.

H goes to his last agreed upon meeting today and we will see.

We have a couple of school events coming up and I was concerned about if we should/would attend together or separate, its amazing now I dont care. He was on the email list and got the invite, he can do whatever and I will do what I plan on doing.

Slowly the good days out number the bad