I know what you are thinking. Where you are. You don't see it yet, but you are honestly trying.. That's awesome.

No magic bullet. Takes time and effort and it will likely not be fun all the time.

Limbo and your expectations seem your immediate problems.

I suggest dealing with those immediate problems...immediately.

You may not like what you see, what happens next. But I assure you, you only have to watch as long as you want. When you decide, you may stop. If you want to be friends, you may. If you decide otherwise, then you may do that too. You have everyone else's permission if you need it...

Whatever happens, outside of her choices, will be because of your choices. Choose wisely because your kids are watching.

Can I ask you something?

Are you worth fighting for? I wasn't at that stage when I was there. I heard much of the same stuff except the apologies. And mine moved back to my neighborhood vs closer to the OM. smile

Something to ponder. Good work on the meetup. Keep at it!

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."