We say here that "it ain't over, til it's over." You may have heard that saying before, but there truth of that statement only hits us after a good amount of time has passed.
We DB regardless of what happens to the M. DBing helps us get a handle on where we went "wrong" in the M, to help us become better people less likely to repeat those mistakes...
It's still a good idea to work through things.
And we are also here to support you, whether you are angry, sad, or otherwise.
Just something to start you off and point out, when you had that conversation with your H, notice how you told him you felt he was having a bad day (your suspicion of WHY he was behaving a certain way).
While you may have been right, that is a dangerous thing to say (never mind to start it off by thinking it). He may have been having a GREAT day.
So what would have been another option was simply to thank him for his openness... and leave it at that...
As I said, keep posting. Use this as a journal if you need or would like.
Again, others will come along and start engaging with you and your thread.
