Hi YC,

It sounds like things are heading in a good direction! I would vote for cooking together at home -- it's a great bonding opportunity, particularly if the meal turns out well. Men like "doing" and working on projects -- if their hands are busy they are more likely to open up and talk -- it's a "guy thing".

If you're working on food prep it will be easier for him to open up than if you're looking at each other across a table in a restaurant -- that would be my vote.

Best regards,

Accuray


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