I've read many times that 90% of the time when you go to marriage counseling of any kind, one spouse is motivated and one is resistant. The resistant spouse is going to do one or more of (1) convince the other person it's their fault and get a third party to weigh in on that, (2) help the other person find peace with the face that it's over, or (3) try to fix their spouse by laying out all their problems for the counselor.
The common thread is that they're not going to do anything themselves. That's why most marriage counseling doesn't really work.
That said, the fact that he's willing to go at all is a huge positive, and a good counselor may be able to do something with the opening and start to turn things around. Since Michele is supposed to be one of the best, I don't think you can go wrong taking the chance.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015