It makes sense. Maybe my MC wasn't particularly good, then. It sounds like you did get something from going. Maybe your husband will think about what was said and will have a change of heart?
Nothing really came out of it when we went, though. Other than the fact that my husband doesn't want to work on any issues with me. He said I was kind, intelligent, and a good person. He said I used to make him feel wonderful and special. He used to just look at me and feel better about himself. I don't know how I did that, and he couldn't verbalize it, either. I know what my problems were already, I guess.
My MC asked if we wanted to come back. My husband had already told me that he would be willing to try it for a month, but told me yesterday that he wanted to think about it before he made a commitment. So I said that was fine. I wasn't going to pressure him or make him feel bad for potentially changing his mind.
I'm really happy that you got something out of it. I don't know where to go from here, and I don't think the MC really gave either of us any direction.
