I'm not asking a husband to commit suicide. I just said it's not good to threaten anyone. Just do whatever you are going to do. Let the actions do the talking.
I wouldn't be starting a fight over someone who apparently doesn't want me. You let them go.
However if the other man put his hands on him, you don't threaten him you do something about it. It may be pressing charges to the police.
If they are doing the affair at his or her workplace, you may choose to expose it.
There's alot of things you can do, but saying it diminishes the effect.
