25YearsMLC (And Not to quibble or minimize NGU's pain, but again, NGU's wife has not even seen this OM in a decade. It's not a PA at all, and OM doesn't declare his love for the wife either. So let's not attach quite the same label to all "improper" contacts)
Thanks for the perspective. Actually, my wife and I were walking out of the last school reunion when he was walking in. We saw him for 15 seconds. My wife recently told me he was the one who told us we should stay a little longer.
Prior to that, she probably hasn't seen him in over 20 years. Your perspective helps ground me. It's my thoughts of the unknown that run away and scare the crap out of me.
Keep posting, everything you say helps settle things down. Thanks!
