Husband had affair and I believe is in MLC

[greatwhitenorth]

I've not really been following your sitch so maybe there's some endearing qualities about your H, but from what I've read on this last post, your H's behavior sounds just like my father's. I cannot begin to imagine why you would want a life with someone who treats you and your children in such a manner.

Sometimes in DBing we focus so much on changing ourselves to rectify the complaints against us that we turn a blind eye to the way we've been treated.