So Maybe I need a good 2x4 ing, The last couple of days I’ve had all I can do not to bring up R to find out where we (I) stand. W is still not talking about it at all. She has all these things around home that shes wanting to do…..savings are limited and all I feel like saying is Do you think attorneys work for free? Plus some of the things are ridiculous if the house will be sold anyway….I am detaching, my GAL just seems to p*ss her off….I want our M to work but still being at home the roommate deal is not a long term solution for me. I am keeping up the 180’s…being friendly ..not pursuing …just bad day I guess