My W started an A in late 2011. Hid it from me until I confronted her two days before my 40th birthday in April 2012. It is now June and she is still with OM.
It hurt like h3ll for the longest time. What was wrong with me? What did I do? How could you do this to me and the Ds? I stopped sleeping. I couldn't eat. I solicited help from her sister and friends. I chased. I pleaded. I begged. I wrote love letters.
None of it worked.
It will take time, but it will happen. I hardly think about the W and OM. My nights with the Ds, I enjoy the time I get to spend with them. My nights without the Ds, I enjoy the time I get to spend for me.
It is worse than you think it is. Accept it. Know that it is going to be a hard fight. Are you willing to fight no matter how hard it is or are you only willing to fight if it is going to be easy?
Vent here on this forum. I used to have to post a ton every day just to get things off my chest. It works. Whether people respond doesn't matter. Work on you, for you and noone else.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
