Thanks everyone! It's hard being on moderated status because you can't get your reply in a correct order.
Good advice about the "GAL".
It's also good advice about backing off and not begging and pleading, which I had done both at the beginning of this. Criticizing was a big part of my problem as well.
How to implement this since he is not here is the hard part.
Jessica
Me:29; W:37 T: 6 M: 4 D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17 H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12 H moved back in: 6/28/12 Confirmed EA: 8/12