I think this was an issue since day one. I think it's part of his personality that came before our R. Because I've seen this from day one. I think in the beginning he didn't have to say what I wanted to hear because he was happy to go along with anything I said or did. (GB summed this up great) He only had to lie to me when it came to his ex-GF. Because those were our only contentious issues!
I think that over time things he hadn't voiced an opinion on began to upset him more and more. He also routinely would be upset when he'd be booked up helping others with things that he'd agreed to do. It would drive me crazy because like Zig says we just want to say well than don't do that.
It's a pattern because if he thinks he'll upset you, he'll say it in a pouty embarrassed voice which then puts you in a position where you have to feel weird. He's not telling me anything anymore. He thinks I will be upset if I hear anything about his life.
I just think that the above sitch reinforced to me the man's issues in himself that he does with his relationships over and over not only to me but with his mom. I can guarantee you that his GF doesn't know how much he comes over or how much contact we have. And given her neediness at the start of them dating I'm sure she would flip.
