You're overanalyzing everything, there are very few absolutes in life. Become the woman you want to be, within a framework of how you want to treat others and how you allow others to treat you.feel confident in YOUR choices and let the chips fall where they may.
Having sex with your H is probably not going to bring him back nor turn him completely away. But it might be fun.
I'm not to the "woman I want to be yet" but I'm getting there.
(((zig)))
Sorry, just saw your statement about concrete yesses and nos.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss