Thank you, heartbrokeinsd frown I'm sorry that you're going through this too.

I just don't get how our problems are "not that bad" and "not that out of the ordinary" yet my husband thinks that it is the end of everything. The marriage counselor said that things need to be this shaken up for change to occur. But if he doesn't want changes to occur, how can they? I guess I can make the changes within myself, but if he's not willing to see them, how will it make a difference?