You have taken a very bad situation, and handled everything w/such poise... And, always putting your boys (and own) welfare first, without compromising the possible reconciliation path for your STBX.
He is truly making his own way.
You are pure good stuff. Your boys are lucky to have you.
Keep it up.
Happy Graduation to S18! Pics are great!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.