I have seen this happen over and over again. I think I even said that he and I got into a big fight because he sent me a text that was meant for GF. It was flirty or lovey dovey but I replied and sorta said what are you talking about and then two seconds later said oh wait never mind that meant for her. And he tried to CONVINCE me that it was for me. Even saying that I was being too suspicious. Of course it made me feel like a nutcase and if he'd just said "yeah, oops sorry" it would have been fine.
This was a major problem in our M that I never knew if he really wanted to do something or was just saying that to please me. He routinely does things he doesn't want to do because he doesn't want to upset anyone. All he does is drift.
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H used to do this too - tell me a partial/incomplete truth because he thought I'd get upset at the whole truth when in reality I was more upset that he didn't just tell me the whole truth.
