dscl, if you don't know how fortunate you are to have 25 come into your sitch and try to help you, let me tell you.

she is a DB guru. she has given you the best way to make your marriage whole again. if you do what she has laid out for you, you will have your best chance.

you can keep defending your actions, keep making excuses, and continue on the road to divorce.

or, you can count yourself VERY lucky and follow her sage advice. most of us have the books and have read them but still have confusion about how to implement what we've read.

she has given you a roadmap. read it again and again, if you have to, because it is a roadmap that leads to a better you and a better you is what your wife wants.

you are so lucky.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing