Thanks everyone.

I do understand what everyone one is saying, but the nagging feeling is what I said before, and I know this is mind reading, but my feeling is she is only waiting to after D bday to tell me she is done.

Im willing to work my issues with the A, but it hurts that it continues even after she knows that I know, and W wants me to accept that it MY fault that it is happening. While I admit that I have not followed DB 100%, I do believe that setting a boundary of her not staying in the home while she is seeing OM is the right thing to do.

Thoughts?


M-41
W-41
D-7
M- 10yrs
I still love you, but 4-25-12
Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12
Confirmed PA 6-9-12