^^^^^ all of this is gold and wonderful. So happy you stopped by. And I agree with your comments re the other poster.

I read a quote that said if someone shot an arrow into your heart you wouldn't yell at the shooter you'd turn your attention to your heart. Heal first.

Quote:
(I took my kids to italy when I realized my h would miss our 25th anniversary...boy did that bother him. I didn't know it then, but he told me later how much it bugged him knowing we were having a blast without him. Guess it gave him something to miss.

HA! I mentioned off handedly that we were going somewhere in the next few days (not even for fun reasons) and H said oh, I'm kinda jealous. I would have wanted to go. And I said you can if you want and he said I can't get off work that soon. oh well! Your life keeps going! They choose to not be a part of it.