Thanks for your posts
I have been doing alot of thinking and praying. I appreciate all the advice I have gotten. I don't have an SBT therapist but I am looking to find one. I was thinking that even if we get to where he wants to actually work on this, there will have to be alot of changes and I am willing to do my part. I don't want to and can't go back to what it was. I wish I would have gotten some advice from the therapist like what I'm getting here. I am grateful to have found this site. I am going to make plans to work on me as I have been advised. I believe it will help me.
Thanks again.