So I woke up this morning and go to D's bedroom to wake her for daycare and who do I see in the hall... the W! Seems she left herself into the house after D and I went to sleep. I ask her what are you doing here? She said she wanted to be here when D woke up, in shock I just walk away and start getting D ready to go. While I'm doing this, W goes and takes a shower, when she comes out I ask do you want to discuss us? (I know bad move bringing up the R, but I think it had to be asked). She shakes her head no, I start think, this is not good, was about to tell her, I understand your feelings not wanting to discuss our issues, but I think it would be best that you do not stay in the house while you are with OM, just as I was about to begin, D walks into the bedroom, so I stay quiet.
By now it's time to leave, so I ask the W if she will be here tonight, she said she was not sure. So I say bye and so does she and me and D leave.
All day at work of course I think about what happen, I think the moment I get home and if the W is there, I will tell her what I was going to say in the morning, I can't lie, I had doubts if I should say something, was this sign that she was coming around? But by the time I left the office I decided I had to tell her she could not stay in the house. When I get home I noticed that she left her bag and some stuff on the bathroom sink so I took that to mean she would be back.
So here it is 10:20 at night and the W has not come back or got in contact with me.
It does not bother me that she is not here, but I was looking forward to setting up the boundary on how she would respect our home.
So it goes.
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
