Mab1 very sorry u find yourself here but it is a great place to be in this sitch. You will get diffident opines and suggestions. Everyone means well and wants u to save your marriage. Sojetimes u will get conflicting ideas. Some did not save their m but they are successful. Give this time. I've been here a year and it has save my sanity. So post often.
Homework next. Have u read DR? If not above on the beginners threat dbmodso ingeniously poste Sandis 37 rule. Start with them until you get he book.?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”