TM, whenever I have hurt someone inadvertently, I ask myself was it with intent?

You can apologize if you choose. Nothing wrong with that.

But, dont beat yourself up about it. That serves no purpose except to hold you back.

I will tell you that it probably would not have made a difference either way you did it.

What is important here is that you recognize your reaction to her.

And look inside to see what it is you want to change.

This is a rollercoaster. But, it is also a wonderful opportunity to become the person you were meant to be.

Dont miss out on it by being weighed down with guilt.