Wife of 7-Years is Divorcing Me, but Yet Not pt. 9

[25yearsmlc]

Alamo

listen to me carefully. I don't mean to sound harsh but this is EXACTLY what I feared she would do and exactly what she was hinting at before.

Your son did NOT say those things OR If he did, it was only after her presistent prompting. He probably would not withstand a good cross exam BUT many CPS workers assume abuse and are suggestive in their interviewing.

Ever hear of the McMartin case? There, they JAILED day care workers for a long time before some smart defense attorneys ON APPEAL

showed how improbable and or impossible it was for the kids to be telling the truth. The CPS workers used anatomically correct dolls and when the kids focussed on the genitalia, as any normal kid who had not seen it on a doll before would

they used THAT as evidence of "actual abuse"...

I did criminal defense work and defended over 70 men accused of sexual abuse of children, and over 200 other defendants. I specialized in cross examining children as witnesses.

Though most of my guys had done something odd or wrong,

ALL of the men I defended whom I truly believe to be innocent
were accused of nearly exactly what your wife claims your son said.

Until you are in jail, she won't drop this unless you cave in and give up your son


UNLESS YOU FIGHT FOR HIM LIKE YOU SHOULD...AND UNLESS/UNTIL SHE RISKS SOMETHING...like being found guilty of parental alienation and abusing your son by emotionally ruining the r you have with him, and more...(OMG I could go on about that...)

1) do NOT have ANY visitations with your son

unless you bring a neutral witness NOT JUST YOUR WIFE--

ALamo---she is a liar and you being around her and son CANNOT HELP YOU or the cause. '


IF ANY of my kids ever said something weird "that daddy said/did" the first person I'd call would be HIM to ask what the kids meant. AND I DID criminal law so I'm jaded yet I know enough to know that kids say weird things all the time. First thing we do is ask the other parent what happened!

That's what NORMAL women do. They don't immediately go to the cops.

(Unless they want full custody and trust me, now that she has said this she won't retract in a way that lets you see him unsupervised, EVER....

OR until your Lawyers get her to back down BIG TIME...not a compromise

Alamo, this was a nuclear weapon she has now armed and is aiming at you....

do you see this now?

2) I am very sorry but IMO, your marriage is, for all intents and purposes, over.

Your wife wants it all and that means erasing/destroying you.

3) you must assert yourself or you could lose everything and I do NOT just mean your son.

Your career, your ability to stay in this country (if you are not yet a citizen) and your professional certaifications may all be in jeopardy. You may not be employable again and you can suffer ALL These consequences without a conviction of a crime but merely a "substantiated allegation" which means a social worker can ruin you...

or the mere fact that a police report was filed with this, can also do serious damage to you...

4) this does not matter to your wife, even if she thought you'd never pay support b/c she never expected money from you anyhow so there's no "dinner plate" to break or worry about. Do you know what I'm saying here?

I do not suggest you give in to this extortionary evil.

You've been her whipping boy too long.

I cannot see ANY reason to move to SC now, b/c the cat is out of the bag.

True, As Val said, IF she had suspected this abuse to be true, why let you care for him so long?

HER ANSWER WILL BE THAT SON JUST TOLD HER THESE THINGS RECENTLY....

Though she's not the first wife in a custody battle to wave this flag -we can only hope the judge sees thru this. That is my prayer.

BUT ALAMO, I have 2 clients in jail for crimes I don't think they committed. I may never know if they were truly innocent - but I think they were and

That haunts me to this day... so YES it happens.

5) you are at WAR now

and YOU MUST act accordingly.

She has armed the nukes now and will launch them at you

so defend yourself. Don't be a fool--

(sorry if that sounds harsh but you have got to WAKE UP)

IF you do anything now without a Lawyer advising you, you do so at your peril & your son's.


You may have legal leverage by questioning your w's motives, mental health snd her deliberate attempt to hurt the relationship you have with son (parental alienation!!)

Women who toss out these charges also take a risk and that MUST be made clear to her.

It's your lawyer's job to make sure SHE gets that. So make sure your Lawyer handles this like you would a vampire.

MEANING---You don't stop and rest until you have put the stake thru the heart.

NO MORE LIES about you from w and no more lies about son or about you to son, this is BIG TIME PARENTAL ALIENATION that she is doing

all so she can move??!!!

UNBELIEVABLE---BUT SADLY---NOT RARE! THIS HAPPENS!

SO

are you awake now? Please say "YES!"