She was mad because I didn't talk to her about it first. I know the outcome would basically be the same as she would not agree with some of the things, but she would not have been hurt.
As for feeling bad, I forgave myself. I think that the reality of losing this relationship is really hitting me.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12