poor h - that's what he left. now i'm confirmed one sexy young looking' chic and starting to have a ball!!
I thought the same thing. H has said I'm prettier. I can see that for my self. She's 3 years younger than me and looks 9 years older. She's not very into fashion or very "girly" and H is a bit of a snob I find myself being amused by what he must be thinking on some level about her friends. But.....his choices are his choices. We are sexy looking young chicks!!
TBH I think Brits say it. I was just joking that the Queen wouldn't say it!
I say, in the words of Amy Winehouse, NO NO NO. Look it's been chemically proven that women form a connection based on chemicals released at orgasm. This is the opposite of setting boundaries and detaching. Trust me, I used to be one of these you can have no strings S, it's not true.
Also I think one of the big reasons I had trouble with H is that after he'd had 2 dates with GF I seduced him. Totally did it to try and get him back, but told him it was just for old times sake and maybe I wanted to know he still found me attractive. one big massive Mind F*ck is what it was. I don't think you can detach if you're getting naked. just my thoughts. And what if he says NO?
But the choice is yours and I would put it this way....would the person you are striving to become do this? If yes, then go ahead. If no, then buy some toys and pick up a copy of 50 shades of Grey!
Also you IC seems to be giving a lot of opinions, IMO. Mine would say things like I've seen all sorts of things happen with couples and would never say if she felt one way or another. The only positive she said is that it sounded like were still very fond of one another and that she'd seen couples in MC with her who didn't like each other that much.
