this is why i posted - to find out if this is part of the db'ing.
have to admit that i am surprised that it is. if one is ready to handle it well. could you say more about what your coach said?
also as far as the std's , i didn't bring it up with IC but i did think about it in my mind. in the very beginning h slept with me before he told me - and then i found out that he hadn't used protection - i seriously lost it - i was quietly angry - but very very angry. he apologized.
apart from not protecting me and himself - what a stupid a$$ thing to do with someone you met on the very first day and TRUSTED them that they were using contraceptives?
ach!! pure frustration!!
thanks vera - i'm glad you responded
this is definitely not something that is openly discussed not he boards - could it be?
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fil did the same to mil with each of his affairs, and his affairs were with men. so i guess that sort of disrespect runs in the family.
but if i did choose to do that i'd use protection - which of course he hates!!
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"