TM, I'm sorry to hear how things went, but T has made some very valid points.
BTW, don't beat yourself up over this. Have a talk w/her and as T suggested and then let it go. To be perfectly honest w/you, I'm not sure if you had spoken to her prior to receiving the information would have been any different...but who knows w/a mlcer.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
