I have really hung in 3 1/2 yrs now. I've done 180s, I have worked on me, gone back to college, gym, hiking, photography, ........nothing makes you feel like *rap though more than knowing that your husband is a liar......right to your face....
I know, Abbey. And I would contend that the dynamic is 10x worse when the liar knows that YOU know that he's lying, and it's even been discussed before. Once you get to that "he knows that you know" stage, and it's allowed to go on, it's extremely damaging to the remaining fabric of not only the marriage, but to the betrayed spouse's own self-esteem and even emotional health, I would contend.
And I would contend that the dynamic is 10x worse when the liar knows that YOU know that he's lying, and it's even been discussed before. Once you get to that "he knows that you know" stage, and it's allowed to go on, it's extremely damaging to the remaining fabric of not only the marriage, but to the betrayed spouse's own self-esteem and even emotional health, I would contend.