"He has been doing a 180 too. Like I said... exercising, reading, going out. Is that bad? I mean, is he really just enjoying his life without me? It seems like he is moving on so quickly already."
Forget about his actions and concentrate on yours. Here's a suggestion. When he's gone, cook something new and exciting. Time it so that it's close to the time when he is coming home. When he sees you cooking tell him that you were trying out a new recipe you saw online and wanted his opinion since he's a great cook. Let him comment and finish the dish. Tell him that you made enough for two and serve it to him. If he declines, shrug it off as his loss.
Doing something like that does two things: 1) It shows that you are ready to take on some of the duties like cooking 2) It strokes his ego a bit when you ask his opinion since he's a "great cook"
Keep it casual and light. Since he does nice things for you, I would suggest trying to get some laughter in there. But be sure you are prepared for rejection. Take it as "his loss". That will show your strength and resolve.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
