I made a list of his problems with me.

1. I am too emotionally dependent on him.

2. I didn't do enough around the house - cooking/cleaning, and I complained when he asked for him.

3. I always acted upset/depressed/angry and never smiled. When he tried to act funny/silly I got mad at him for not being serious.

4. I tested him and expected him to always know how I was feeling.

5. I ignored his feelings and never validated anything he felt.

6. I ignored his caring gestures.