IMO you should apologize. Women have a long memory about stuff like that. I get the fact that you feel hurt and disrespected. Believe me I do, but if you burst out like that, it makes you sound weak, out of control and insecure.
If you want to make an impact, pack her bags, tell her you're not willing to have her in the home when she sneaks off to other man's house (then when she protests, tell her you have proof), and that he can have her and the children stay with you while she enjoys her new life.
That will shake her up.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
