It has been suggested that I speak to him as I'd speak to a roommate/brother/friend. So when he asks, "how was your day?" Do I go into detail about my day, because that's how I'd answer a roommate, or do I just say, "It was fine. How was yours?" and then walk into another room?
And then it was suggested to be "unpredictable." So, one day, do I answer with a long-winded explanation of my day, and the next day go into the bedroom when he comes home so as not to talk to him at all? I feel like this is conflicting advice, and I don't know which one to do.
Should I go out of my way to do nice things for him? Like, I've been stacking and emptying the dishwasher, which is nice for both of us. But should I, like, fold his pants when he leaves them out on the couch? Should I initiate ANY conversations with him? I just don't know.
